Welcoming with one hand and striking(stalking) with two.
It became problematic for me to deal with one of the coercive tactics that he used. That is “Welcoming with one hand and striking(stalking) with two”.
Usually, he engaged through a close friend in a triangulation relationship. While publicly , he was advertising his intention of seeking reconciliation, behind the scene , he was covetly attacking and stalking.
I have plenty to say in future writing, but I wanted to express this as point of reference for the future.