Welcoming with one hand , striking(stalking)  with two, A clean way to annihilation

Off course the welcoming act  is  publicly advertised ,while the  stalking part is   covert and  done under the radar. Image below describes the situation

The triangulation above is the process cultivating the victims's friends turned  into flashbacks

Left side of triangle: The observer (Goldenchild) is groomed. (paired with Narcissistic grooming). It is  sometimes accompanied by a spirit of joy and happiness and festivity. This link  discusses the role of humor as weapon in the hands of "Cluster B" (Humor and Comic Styles with Cluster B Personality Pathology) .

Note:Goldenchild (observers) are chosen from the target 's circle of  friends. 

Right side of triangle: the real victim is paired with shock. That is by relentless attacks on sympathetic nervous system.This is done in the following manner.

• cultivating the existing triggers(flashbacks)

• Insert new triggers (flashbacks)

Both pairing with shock and pairing with narcissistic grooming are cultivated through time. 

The attacks continues  intensively and aggressively on sympathetic nervous system, which has  devastating effect on physical health. This will continue until the victim reached a state of  “Learned helplessness and hopelessness”.

A Condition that usually leads to the annihilation of the  victim. 

They either commit suicide or simply dye as result of massive attack on their sympathetic nervous system. Sometimes they get to the vegetable state, where they can not process their emotion.

People  could get  wiped  out  from the surface of the earth and  no one would even know. Sadly, our  community thinks,  Another person lost his life to the disease.

Loneliness Of Victims Of Narcissistic Abuse:

How can I  explain my  experience of violence  that I  absorbed gradually. Do I show the MRI picture of my amygdala gland, hippocampus and prefrontal cortex section of my brain. But, I don't have the image of them from before 2019 for comparison.

How can i tell my friends that they have become triggers for my new flashbacks?

How can i tell my new friends about this experience?

I am not  all alone with this "crime committed against humanity". 

Modern World recognition.

Although it is not illegal in the United States , i am hoping this work  could help a little to bring the issue  into the spotlight.  Public awareness is crucially needed.

Good news is that  the modern world, after centuries of denial has start taking serious action on this problem.

France was the first  country to  illegalized  the  Narcissistic Abuse in 2010.

almost a decade later., Ireland and England followed suit  

Coercive manipulation is now illegal in England.

in 1976., The Catholic Church, after centuries of denial,  acknowledge the Narcissistic Abuse. It allowed  it as a condition for annulment in the marriage. That was based on the premises that a narcissist can not perform the human function in a marriage.

Dorothy Gale

Winkie Country, Land of Oz