It is all about a secret. The Narcissist's secret. He Guards his secret like his life depends on it. That is an existential treat. When he realize someone know his secrets , he goes into an all out preemptive defense, where it takes the form of scandal. This is called narcissistic framing as shown below.

narcissistic framing.

It carries two objectives:

1. Wear the potential audience down to the point the get sick of hearing it.

2. Blame Shifting. He becomes the victim and his real victim become the predator.

Truth Teller

Truth teller or as in my case Truth seer is the person who gets it. He gets all the manipulation, all the lies and everything the narcissists do.

That is my story and my relationship with my stalker. Until now , i was truth seer. I certainly wasn't naive to see what i am up against.

The truth teller sees the narcissist without any of his masks. The parable "Emperor has no clothes" refers to this, where truth teller sees the narcissist through all the manipulation, gaslighting , triangulation and all the games he plays.

For narcissists "Truth Teller is an existential treat. He will do anything to eliminate the treat.

In my case , everything was alright , until he realized i see through him. He realized, he is naked.

Hopefully, the following presentation , by Dr Ramani will explain this relationship between Truth teller and narcissists What do narcissists do to truth tellers

Discrediting the Truth Teller

Narcasists uses various narcissistic manipulation technique to discredit the truth teller as unreliable source. I will cover them in detail , when the times come. For now i list a few.

• gaslighting

• tribal-gaslighting

• triangulation

• Monitoring and Stalking

• Blunt Lying

• Deflection, Diversion, and Evasion

• Emotional Blackmail

• Shaming and Blaming

• Confusion

• Scapegoating

• Gang Stalking

Wearing Down the audience

One cleaver strategy the narcissist use , he wears down the potential audiences of "truth teller". one person at a time he goes through the friend of "truth teller". relentlessly and aggressively and triangulate them.

So, he present the the issue as a personal conflict between "Truth teller" and narcissists.

The audience have no energy left to hear the truth teller . No energy left to hear the truth that narcissists is a predator. They dismiss such a serious issue as just petty bickering between "Truth teller" and narcissists.