When Cluster B Becomes A Loving Mother
When Cluster B Becomes A Loving Mother
When Cluster B Becomes a Loving Mother:
"Munchausen By Proxy" disguised as "Principle of service"
The medical term for this condition is “Munchausen By Proxy”.
It is also refers to as “Factitious Disorder Imposed on Another (FDIA)”
Image below shows a typical relationship between caregiver (Cluster B) and the child. But, it could easily portray any relationship, such as the relationship 12 steps fellowship.
“Munchausen By Proxy” and triangulation
“Munchausen By Proxy” is about using medical conditions to change the dynamic of a relationship between three or more people.
Image below shows the exsiting state of a triangulation relationship. Cluster B (Person B) is unhappy about this relationship.
In this case Clust B ( person B) is left out from the relationship. He use series of manipulative technique to change the situation. One of them is called Munchausen By Proxy”.
In this case, he causes many serious medical issues for person A. Then he publicly advertise the serious condition of person A . The condition that that he has created for person A.
He does that until the situation is ready to approach (Person C). Effectively, he creates a three way relationship Between person A, B, C.
In this case Person B ( the hero; Cluster B) and Person C become ally to save the needy person A.
Image below shows the objective of Cluster B from this triangulation.
Repetition Compulsion
At this point Cluster B gets to the proximity of Person A ‘s close friends. One friend at the time, he triangulate them like described in perivious section.
The image below shows the process of triangulation.
Tribal Gaslighting: “munchausen by proxy” on steroid;
Gas lighting, both intimate and tribal, is a form of emotional terrorism. It is meant to disarm the target and his healthy supportive people who are in his life. It is meant to create fear, leave the target with feeling unsure of his reality, instill guilt and shame, and keep him under the control of the abuser.
In previous section , i described how "Munchausen by Proxy" is used to build up tribal gaslighting. I ahve lsited several links on the topic.
The Symptoms i developed as result of " Munchausen By Proxy” abuse:
Chronic CPTSD:
Chronic Sleep Apnea.
cognitive delay
impairment with cognitive sequencing
Induced ADHD
Sudden Physical movement and twitching
Temporary Amnesia: impairment with short term memory.
Cortisol poisoning
Daymare
Massive weight gain.
Isolation
sudden speech impairment
Emotional Dysregulation:
Visual Impairment: dry eye and Chronic Red Eye
Chronic Hyper-arousal: I can not turn off being in a high state of alert.
Chronic state of “Learned helplessness/hopelessness”
Chronic Hyper vigilance